well....its been 19 years living with them....n i still thnk they dont understand me.
Well i know every teenager thnks that his/her parents cant understand but this is lil different.
i do a small stupid mistake n my parents say that im of no use...wont be able to do anything in life except blaming people.
and im left asking myself is that true?
am i that useless?
am i that big shame to my parents?
i never thought my own parents who mean the world to me would ever say that to me.
n its not that happened 1st time it happens everyday.
i never get my answers...because deep down i know i am not useless...i am a girl capable of doing many things.
but howcome parents can thnk that their own extension is useless and good for nothing will remain a mystery to me!!
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hey relax. i understand what you are saying cos i go through the same thing. but to a larger extent what matters more is that i know who i am and what i am capable of. i hope you too draw strength from deep within you. :)
i try my best to but u knw wen ppl whom u love d most lost faith in you...its difficult to regain tht confidence n strength!!!!
yeah it is. plus you try to regain their faith and that takes a lot out of you. you could also try and get some strength from someone real close to you like a boyfriend or a best friend. at such times they are the best source of solace.
hey sweety!!!
that question u have put up here is the one every one seeks to answer at sometime in life.
I know its the worst thing on earth to be criticised for small things that too by people who mean the most to you.
I have two small suggestions:
1. Are your parents going through any kind of stress/tension which is making them short tempered and irritated at the smallest mistake?
2. Is it possible for you to sit down and rationally discuss this issue with them?
Also while at it will you do a bit of self analysis and see if you have any pent up resentment against them which makes you take their smallest comment to heart?
I will be back to know what answers you come up with.
ciao!!
Failing requires courage too...it shouldn't make you weak...i am mighty proud of even failing..hope you will at least think about it.
Chin Up :)
Sunshine
P.S. Thanks for visiting my blog
Dear enigma,
first of all thank you for dropping by my blog.Remember that parents love their childrens .Even I am used to such things before and even now.Its not like one is useless.Every one is blessed by gods grace.Its just because we arent able to utilise it the correct way.every one knows this famous proverb."To err is home and to forgive is divine".There is no one in world who doesnt makes any mistake.Please get back and this should provoke positive energy in you and nt hatred towards ur parents.
just take ur own decisions which will help u
tc
cheers,
ste
Hello Enigma:
You seem to have alot of interests. Photography and reading are interests of mine as well. Writing and blogging, too :)
What you think about yourself is what matters most. If your parents thought you were the best thing in the world, but you hated yourself, your life would be more of a misery.
You, as you wrote, are capable of doing many things. Writing helps greatly. I hope you will blog some more, perhaps about your interests, etc.
I wish you peace and happiness, always!
u can add me on gmail..its Gauri.017@gmail.com..:)
take cre..
just relax.....rmmbr evrytg is part n parcel of life sweetza.......
all the parents are the same. it's their tendency to ignore good things in you... so take it easy (although i know its not easy) but knowing that too many ppl have gone through this - helps.
Deep down, you always know how good you are, and what exactly, you are capable of and more... parents I believe, try to keep the demon alive... but hen I'm one of those who firmly believe in that parents, are your best well wishers... after all they are the reason that you are here... try reflecting back, and I'm sure you'll surely realise that they aren't all that wrong, after all.
Hey. Listen, firstly this is totally the age for conflicts to arise between your parents and you. But you must know that, what they say might just be in a fit of anger. They love you, they are your parents and by no means are you "useless". No one is. Just stick to what you believe in. A few years later, you'll look back and see that this was just a phase. You'll be just fine :)
Take care and cheer up!
And yes, maybe parents won't understand you as much as you would want them to at this age but you always have your friends ..and us bloggers! :D
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